He invites Making out in the Office

"I'm a girl, has been employed. I have one very close guy friend, he work together with me. We are very close, but not going out. I have 5 years working in this place with him, but just two years I was very familiar with it. To the extent that my friends thought we were going out.

The problem is, when she was working, if in the workplace no one and quiet atmosphere, he and I always do things that are not reasonable. Among others, he often wringing my breasts and kissed my cheek and body. Sometimes he also stimulate my genitals and told me to perform oral sex.

I want to ask, is there any negative effects of this relationship since she has a boyfriend? Are my breasts may become larger as it gets the stimulus? Is oral sex that I do can cause disease because it goes into the mouth? I am also afraid of sinning when doing this constantly. "

SR, Riau

It requires
Sex drive is influenced by several factors, including psychological factors and external stimuli. Both factors are closely related to the situation where the human being.

You and your work situation it is often both a psychic has given stimulus. The situation is causing you and he's willing to engage in sexual activity in the form of a kiss, grope, and even oral sex.

Of course the event could take place because of you and he really wants. If one party does not want, may not take place.

However, if you feel afraid of sin, should not you do it again. In connection with the friend who has a boyfriend, I think there are three possibilities that may occur.

First, he remained with his girlfriend and treat you as a friend or girlfriend too. Secondly, he broke with his girlfriend and chose you. Third, he remained with his girlfriend and stop the sexual activity with you.
If it happens a third possibility, a little more you will be disturbed, especially if you already feel an emotional bond with him.

Putting tightened
Stimulation of the breast will not make breasts bigger. The reaction that occurs only when the stimulus occurs, your breasts will swell because the nipples stiffened. After the stimulus disappeared, the breasts will return to its original state.

About oral sex, was not only done by women against men, but also vice versa. Oral sex does not cause anything to be done due according to desire and sex in good health. If oral sex do not fit, a psychic can create bottleneck. Likewise, if the sex was having an infection, transmission may occur to the mouth. Hopefully this explanation may be food for thought for you. @

Answered by Prof. Wimpie consultation Pangkahila spand

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Few Satisfied that no sperm?

This man complained of feeling less satisfied during sex because of "spray" sperm is not as strong as before. Is there a relationship between sperm volume and sexual satisfaction?

"I was 52, his wife of 45 years. Since three years ago I had a problem, that if having sex with my wife, I'm not satisfied when the sperm out. I felt my sperm is less than the first. My wife has also said, spray is not strong anymore .

My question, why I am getting a little sperm? How do I let the sperm so much more that I could be satisfied as before? Likewise, wives to be happy again. "
D, Jakarta

Does not affect orgasm
Your complaint that fewer sperm compared with three years ago may be true. Due to the aging process, a decline in many bodily functions, including the sex glands.

If the sex gland fluid production, particularly the prostate gland and seminal vesicles was reduced. Moreover, if the men had undergone prostate cancer. However, it is not possible volume of your sperm did not actually change. The problem is only on the contraction of muscles around the genitals is reduced because of the aging process so you are not satisfied.

Complaints wife that "the spray is not strong anymore" does not mean that the sperm is reduced. It may also be caused by muscle contraction is reduced when you have an orgasm. As a result, the wife feels as if "spray" is not strong anymore. Another possibility is that your penis erection quality decreased.

If this happens, I'm sure you will soon feel and will feel less satisfied when reaching orgasm. Whatever you experience, the reduced volume of sperm actually does not affect orgasm and sexual satisfaction. The total volume of sperm is not associated with orgasm and sexual satisfaction. Sensation of orgasm is influenced by neuronal function.

Contraction of muscles around the genitals and other body parts occur during orgasm, which in normal healthy male ejaculation also accompanied. However, ejaculation is not orgasm and ejaculation is not orgasm. Both events were different, although in normal healthy men occurred at the same time.

For you, there is no reason to add that more sperm. Functioning sperm to fertilize an egg cell to produce a pregnancy. In fact, I'm sure you do not want a wife pregnant again.

Try to get rid of the notion that more sperm volume will give more satisfaction as well. Different between muscle contractions around the genitals and sperm volume. Maybe you should check yourself to find out what really happened in order to get proper treatment.

Consultation is answered by Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila spand

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Have attended, Sperm Test Tool Yourself!

You are curious to test sperm, but ashamed to come to the doctor or the lab? In the future, make yourself at home sperm test is not an impossible thing. Experts in the Netherlands offers a solution by creating a practical means of male fertility test that can be done at home.

Loes Segerink and his team at the MESA + Institute for nanotechnology, University of Twente, Enschede, The Netherlands, developed a miniature device measuring 10 cm in sperm that can perform the test in seconds. Tools that proverbial "lab on a chip".

Admittedly, these tools are useful. However, the question arises about the ethical use of it if without getting input from a professional. The reason, a reliable method of manual calculation time is always accompanied by an expert or doctor consultation. It is feared that, without consultation, the tool can even be detrimental.

Generally, a man somewhat embarrassed to check the quality of sperm in addition to the procedure, the analysis also takes a long time in the laboratory. Ejaculated sperm analysis results should be initiated at the same hour. That is, unless the patient is next door to the fertility clinic, she could not prepare a sperm sample from home and had to immediately "produce" in the lab as well. Once the sample is submitted to the lab, took a long time to perform the manual counting method.

"With our system, we can solve the problem," said Segerink.
According to him, his findings chip only need 12 seconds to release the results and the degree of possible fault with the manual counting method. The device could be used in fertility center hospital, but also could be adapted so that there is a cheap and practical variation that can be used at home.

On the other hand, Michael Dunn, medical ethics researcher at Oxford University, expressed concern. "There is a risk to the patient if they are not given relevant information about the impact of positive results of sterility," he said.

That is, if the outcome turns out the patient was barren, he should be given appropriate information so that not one of perception.

Tools such medical examiner is now more necessary. Another example is the Hywel Morgan and his partners from the University of Southampton who developed a more practical tool to test the viral infection and anemia only from a speck of blood.

"Tools like this allow the distribution of health services to the community at large," said Morgan, "However, if you're diagnosing the disease, the results (test of the instrument) must be handled appropriately."

"Even if the technology is ready for the market, community preparedness is still a problem," said Morgan. (C17-09)

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Experience:I wish ML Every Day, Do Hipersex?

"I am a man, aged 53 years. I have been married since 15 years ago. My sexual appetite is very high, every day want to have sex with the wife. If the wife is not home, I saw pictures of porn and masturbation. Ever is also looking for PSK , but now fear having been diseased.

My wife is very passive, never showing sex drive. I've tried to stimulate it, but the wife still no reaction. Sometimes, when we're having sex, wife of fun even watch TV or read newspapers, so that sex is less harmonious.

Actually I was embarrassed with my wife because every day whining to ask diladeni. This has been going on since the beginning of marriage. I want to ask, how do I stimulate my wife to have sexual desire? Is my wife having abnormalities or whether she was gay? Do I include men hiperseks? How to reduce sexual desire? "

PT, Palembang

Disfunction

Sex drive is influenced by the hormone testosterone, the body's state of health, psychological factors, and previous sexual experience. If you feel the sexual drive remained strong, it means that the above factors remain good and support your sex drive.

Unfortunately, your wife seems impaired sexual function so that it appears not to react to sexual stimulation you provide. Certainly this is an issue that must be addressed. To fix this, of course, must be known what causes it.

Very likely your wife is experiencing sexual dysfunction in the form of loss of sexual drive. These disorders can be caused by many factors, both physical factors and psychological factors. One cause is to have never reached orgasm before.

Failure to achieve orgasm that lasts a long time can eventually lead to loss of sexual drive. To find out what the real cause, certainly required further consultation and examination.

Not necessarily hiperseks
Unfortunately you can not explain how your wife's sexual life before. Is he able to enjoy sexual relations with you so long to get married. If it turns out he's been unable to enjoy sexual relations with you, it is natural when later he became aroused.

Problem is he a lesbian or not, of course necessary consultation to get confession. I do not know why you bring up the question.

Likewise, can not be ascertained it for granted that you are a hiperseks, although that possibility exists. Someone who is always horny hypersexual want to have sex, solely to achieve orgasm without emotional involvement. However, he never felt quite satisfied after reaching orgasm so want to continue to repeat the sexual relationship. Necessary consultation and further evaluation to determine whether you are a hypersexual.

If you want to suppress your sex drive, try to do physical activity and mental enough. You can do regular exercise and activity that uses the brain.

I suggest your wife consult further to determine the sexual dysfunction experienced. Likewise you, although it seems you do not experience sexual dysfunction. @

Consultation answered by Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila, spand FAACS

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