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There is a thread that can be drawn from the letter below, which is not good communication between husbands and wives, especially sexual communication. How should? Consider the following answer to Prof. Wimpie.

"I was 61, his wife of 45 years. I'm having a sexual disorder since the age of 56 years. If you want to relate sometimes do not get an erection. If it can, can not be good and satisfactory.'s Wife so often complain. Two years is getting worse. I'm getting hard erection though passions.

If it can, just started, is gone again. Wife looked very disappointed and sometimes angry. I am so confused. I realized I was much younger wife, but he understood the situation should not husbands, not even angry? Moreover, women are more easily control his sexual desires than men so as not to cause problems if you do not have sex. Do I get an erection if treated again as before, and his wife could be satisfied again? "
B.M., Solo

View of mistaken
Before answering your question, I have to straighten out your opinion. The statement "Moreover, women are more easily control his sexual desires than men so as not to cause problems if you do not have sex" is completely wrong.

Not always easy to control women's sexual urges. Not always when women did not have sexual intercourse does not cause problems. Actually been misinformed people, male and female sexuality as if it is not the same, even the opposite.

As if only men with an interest in sex, women do not. As if only the guy who needs sexual satisfaction, women do not. Both men and women are sexual beings. What does it mean? Both had had a sexual drive, both want to engage in sexual activity, and both want to feel sexual pleasure. Both are equally able to experience sexual dysfunction. However, humans are also able to control sexual urges.

Can be treated
The problem you and your wife because you have erectile dysfunction. This may occur since five years ago according to your explanation. Because you let it, the worse the disorder.

Your failure is not immediately get treatment. True there is a gap in age, but in the present age is not a problem. Age no longer be used as indicators of organ function. With the correct treatment according to the principles of Anti-Aging Medicine, the age of organ function can be made younger and healthier than age (calendar) us.

So, although you are 61 years of age, with proper treatment, organ function can be fixed properly, including your sexual function. Of course you need a proper consultation and examination.

I suggest you immediately consult further and get a check. From there it can be known with certainty the existence of erectile dysfunction or other disorders and what causes it so that correct treatment can be determined. I hope you're experiencing problems can be resolved by either making the sexual life with his wife to be like before.

Consultation is answered by Prof.Dr.Wimpie Pangkahila, Sp.And