Enjoying Sex It's like eating

What is the difference between enjoying food and sex? Enjoying food can be alone, that sex alone is less enjoyable. The equation? Each of the three stages need to be perfect, ie appetizer, main course and dessert at dinner, or foreplay, intercourse, and afterplay during sex.

For some reason, most people do not plan to eat a full set of menus. Be forewarned there are snacks savory-salty-sour taste that can arouse, then eat the main meal full of nutrition, and ending with sweet desserts. Perhaps the habit of eating to the point, straight to the main menu, it also illustrates how most people have sex: straight into penetrative sex! And, after sleeping soundly.

"Like the full dish set menu consisting of three stages, a satisfying sex can be achieved if includes three stages, namely, foreplay, intercourse, and afterplay," said Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila, spand, Professor and Chairman of Andrology and the Study Center Faculty Seksologi Medicine, University of Udayana, Bali.

Start with foreplay

Foreplay is like appetizer or entree, aka bait pharynx during feeding is essential for appetizing. "Taste is key, but the appearance should be!" Said Rudy Choirudin, expert cook, on presentation of appetizers.

Cleanse the body until fragrant, then come up with clothes that suggest sexy, it's important to do. "Do not forget to cast praise and express words of affection to your partner," said Zoya D Dra Jusung, MPsi.

According to UI Faculty of Psychology lecturer who studied sexology, when compared to intimate communication skills to have sex upside down, it turns intimate communication is more important emotionally.

Of course it should be done after a physical touch, a caress, kiss, hug, and so on, which increases the incentives for self or spouse. According to Prof. Wimpie, "Without foreplay, erection of the penis may not be optimal, whereas in female lubrication does not occur."

Without lubrication (wet vagina), painful sexual intercourse took place, like someone being raped. While if the penis is not erect optimal, it is definitely a woman will be very disappointed.

Time to enjoy intercourse

To be able to enjoy a satisfying sexual relationship, it takes a perfect penis erection. "The failure of orgasm in women, among others, due to the lack of penis male violence. The cause of the lack of violence, among other penis-related vascular diseases, eg diabetes mellitus, "said Prof. Wimpie.

"Then to the main menu, in addition to vegetables and meat, carbohydrate let there must be 'kicked'," said Rudy.

To determine whether erection could really kick, he can do the test themselves penis by using a score that is made by Pfizer following.

Does penis enlarged but not hard, like tape? Or erect penis hard but not hard enough for penetration, such as boiled banana peel? Probably hard enough for penetration but not completely hard, like a sausage? The hope penis such as cucumbers, hard wholly and completely tense.

Various sex positions can be tried as long as you and your partner both feel comfortable and can enjoy. Men do not have the above. Men and women can take turns at the top, below, in front, behind, and so on.

Finish with afterplay

If ejaculation has occurred, orgasm can be achieved equally, do not rush to turn over and snore. Dra advice Zoya, use that time to talk with your partner, for example, reveal which part was so good, as when you are happy to see the couple, and so on.

This is important because sexual satisfaction is not just an orgasm. "In psychology, if only to do with the genital pleasure, if it is the satisfaction of emotional satisfaction," said Zoya Dra.

If Rudy says, "To cover there should taste sweet things, let the tongue satisfied and unforgettable." @ Widya Saraswati