If Not Fair Sexual Fantasy

Everyone has a dark side, including the sexual fantasizing. Research has shown that sexual intercourse with a way "forced" the first rank of sexual fantasy is often done by women.

Fantasy is a form of mechanism (coping mechanism) by escaping the fact or condition which can not happen in the real world into a world that allows these conditions to materialize.

Types of sexual fantasies varies considerably, there is fantasize having sex with former boyfriend and idol or sex in public places. However, it turns out quite a lot of women libido awakened every time imagining himself forced sex or rape.

Having sex by force, according to a study in 2009, is a kind of fantasy that is often done. Other studies have shown, a third of women admitted to imagine a man could bring himself to make love to her passion burning. Why?

Dr. Hernando Chaves, a clinical sexologist from California, United States, said, imagining herself raped, when they want to feel under the domination of men or forced to submit. Others do it because you want to feel a crazy man to himself and wanted to make love with him.

The experts also mentioned, in fact there are psychological reasons behind the sexual fantasies, which respond to past trauma.

"Basically, there are no women who want to be raped in the real world. Rape is an experience and nonsexual forms of violence," said Chavez.

Therefore, according to Chaves, women who fantasize about her being raped actually want to feel that he was under duress or sadomasochistic sexual experience but it is safe because it is only in the mind.

Sexual fantasies are also often involved men who preferred their own or partner so that they can control the limits and could be more "real" picture it. Some women keep their own fantasy, but there also are trying to make it happen with a partner.

"It should be remembered that do directly with very different fantasies. In addition, not all men can understand the fantasy," he said.