Sex, More and More Slow Okay

Age should not a barrier for someone to enjoy sexual akitivitas a comfortable and satisfying. In fact, according to experts sexology, increasing age, a person's sex life should get better and more enjoyable.

The study, published the journal Psychological Science in November 2008, for example, proving that a person's marital satisfaction and happiness will increase along with the children began to escape because of her independence. The sex therapist agreed that the release of the children of "nest" husband and wife tend to make more free to enjoy quality time, including in terms of sex.

Sex therapist David Schnarch never reveal the difference between genital prime and sexual prime one. For most people, the genital prime appears in adolescence and the age of 20 when the body is in the best condition. However, at this time the mind has not been well developed sexually.

Schnarch says that a person's sexual prime is actually far from what is imagined by many as the days of sexual "heavy and hot", such as school age. With increasing age, a person would benefit from self-acceptance, knows what she likes and not be afraid to ask.

Famous sex counselor from New York Times, Ian Kerner, argues, aging will not actually affect a person's sex, not just as unhealthy habits that will lead to losses after a few years. Instead of unhealthy lifestyles such as too much stress, lack of sleep, poor diet, exercising lazy, not caring for self, and relationships with other people who will ruin your sex life.

Leaving the quality of health continues to deteriorate, according to Kerner, is a major cause of sexual problems. Therefore, no wonder so many people who were healthy at the age of 50 and 60's still more sexually active than those younger.

One important thing that distinguishes people young and old in terms of sex, according to Kerner, sex is always slowed down with age. For example, a young woman can experience vaginal in just a few seconds, but for older women need up to a few minutes to experience perlendiran.

"The same thing applies to men in terms of erection. It is important for couples to realize that it takes longer to get an erection or perlendiran so it does not mean that couples do not need to be aroused," says Kerner.

In fact, slow it bring any good for your sex life. When the signs of sexual arousal does not appear as fast than normal, giving it a longer chance to couples to play and mingle with each other in bed. The behavior we usually do during foreplay can be a major activity during sex and give opportunity to the couple to re-explore each other sexually.

When men experience aging, testosterone levels will decline, while the hormone estrogen will rise. This means that many elderly men who could be more focused and appreciate the softness of the sex.

For example, husbands who are curious or have never tried erotic massage or other techniques can now try and introduce it to their partner. In principle, enjoy what is agreeable with age. The young man did have stronger erections, but older men tended to have better control. You and your partner getting familiar with each other's bodies, have perfect technique, and no longer feel inhibited as in the past!