Why Women Fake Orgasm?

Research shows, nearly 60 percent of women said they had to pretend to reach orgasm during intercourse or during oral sex.

Keeping the partner's feelings were not the only reason. Many women who do so for fear of intimacy with their partner or feeling anxious with yourself.

Not a few are also women who pretend to climax with the reason they are not comfortable with the sexual organ function or because they want to immediately end the ongoing sexual relationship.

Although numbers were small, but there are also fake an orgasm because they want to enhance their sexual experience.

"For the latter group of them wanted to increase the stimulation to yourself so they are achieving higher satisfaction," said Erin Cooper from Temple University who conducts research on that.

In his research, Cooper conducted a survey on 366 women aged 18-32 years who had faked her orgasms. The women were questioned about sexual habits, the reason for faking orgasms and they feel the closeness of relationships.

For women who are afraid of feeling intimate and close, faked orgasms means keeping a distance with a partner. Meanwhile, for those who are embarrassed by their sexual performance, Cooper argues fake orgasm is a great way to save their egos.

"Women are hard to get close to others in its early stages is usually difficult emotional closeness also to close on a sexual level. They need intervention," he said.

Meanwhile, women who want to quickly finish his sexual relationship allegedly also had some trouble to let other people close to personally.

"They feel connected to their partner or sexual experience, so do not get satisfaction from sex," he explained.

These reasons will certainly have an impact on the relationship outside the bedroom. Improving communication and trying to boost the confidence and intimacy according to Cooper will help to be what it is in the bedroom.