Post-Childbirth passion faded, it normal?

The new birth is not only happy but also exhausting. No wonder that 20 percent of new mothers who claimed maternity sexual arousal is reduced and 21 percent were even losing the desire for romance.

There are several factors that could cause the ruination of this sex. The first is a sense of weariness after a long day taking care of babies. Especially in the first weeks of a baby. At this time the baby usually requires more attention from parents, not to mention if the mother had to stay up to feeding or holding a baby.

These conditions not only physically exhausting but also psychological. When you have time for yourself, who first want to do is to rest, instead of making out with her husband.

The second factor is the condition of the body is still in the recovery phase after the birthing process. The pain of stitches around the vagina or around the seam section is also often a prohibitive factor by mothers to have sex.

Most women also worry about the pain and discomfort that may be experienced during first intercourse after childbirth. Another prohibitive factor is felt less attractive due to their anatomy has not restored. These feelings have a huge impact because it can cause discomfort in the presence of her husband.

Another factor is anxiety. For example concerned will become pregnant again before the desired time, afraid of milk production will be disrupted, as well as various other anxiety that can interfere with libido and mood for sex.

The good news, the decline is temporary passion. Needed support and understanding spouse on the condition of the mother to return back to the warmth of the marital relationship. Cooperation between husband and wife in caring for babies can also improve physical and emotional bond.