Experience:I wish ML Every Day, Do Hipersex?

"I am a man, aged 53 years. I have been married since 15 years ago. My sexual appetite is very high, every day want to have sex with the wife. If the wife is not home, I saw pictures of porn and masturbation. Ever is also looking for PSK , but now fear having been diseased.

My wife is very passive, never showing sex drive. I've tried to stimulate it, but the wife still no reaction. Sometimes, when we're having sex, wife of fun even watch TV or read newspapers, so that sex is less harmonious.

Actually I was embarrassed with my wife because every day whining to ask diladeni. This has been going on since the beginning of marriage. I want to ask, how do I stimulate my wife to have sexual desire? Is my wife having abnormalities or whether she was gay? Do I include men hiperseks? How to reduce sexual desire? "

PT, Palembang

Disfunction

Sex drive is influenced by the hormone testosterone, the body's state of health, psychological factors, and previous sexual experience. If you feel the sexual drive remained strong, it means that the above factors remain good and support your sex drive.

Unfortunately, your wife seems impaired sexual function so that it appears not to react to sexual stimulation you provide. Certainly this is an issue that must be addressed. To fix this, of course, must be known what causes it.

Very likely your wife is experiencing sexual dysfunction in the form of loss of sexual drive. These disorders can be caused by many factors, both physical factors and psychological factors. One cause is to have never reached orgasm before.

Failure to achieve orgasm that lasts a long time can eventually lead to loss of sexual drive. To find out what the real cause, certainly required further consultation and examination.

Not necessarily hiperseks
Unfortunately you can not explain how your wife's sexual life before. Is he able to enjoy sexual relations with you so long to get married. If it turns out he's been unable to enjoy sexual relations with you, it is natural when later he became aroused.

Problem is he a lesbian or not, of course necessary consultation to get confession. I do not know why you bring up the question.

Likewise, can not be ascertained it for granted that you are a hiperseks, although that possibility exists. Someone who is always horny hypersexual want to have sex, solely to achieve orgasm without emotional involvement. However, he never felt quite satisfied after reaching orgasm so want to continue to repeat the sexual relationship. Necessary consultation and further evaluation to determine whether you are a hypersexual.

If you want to suppress your sex drive, try to do physical activity and mental enough. You can do regular exercise and activity that uses the brain.

I suggest your wife consult further to determine the sexual dysfunction experienced. Likewise you, although it seems you do not experience sexual dysfunction. @

Consultation answered by Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila, spand FAACS