The importance of "Loveplay" Before Sex

Sexual activity before intercourse is usually called foreplay. However, most experts in the field of sex mentions that the term is not precise, because it does not mean anything other than "warming". Sure warming to sex.

The word foreplay gives great pressure on men to have a penis that can bereksi and tend to lead us to think that sex is just sex.

Similarly delivered the opinion of Joel D. Block, Ph.D., in his book Secrets of Better Sex. According to Joel, the right term for it is loveplay.

Furthermore, Joel reveals that the period usually called foreplay is considered as a step that must be done by a man against his female partner to be ready to have sex because men are considered always ready.

In fact, men, especially those who are elderly, desperately need and want loveplay before or during sex. As a preparation for the actual intercourse, foreplay will be able to increase sexual arousal when executed properly.

Here are five clues to foreplay according to Joel. D. Block:

1. Remember that sex begins in the brain. Start thinking about the times when having sex and tell your mind briefly, through a better picture to your partner if it can be. Could also with other symbols, such as sending a rose to his office.

2. Consider the romantic details. Prepare a little romantic atmosphere. Make sure the room is warm enough, proper lighting, the room smells fragrant, stimulating underwear, and so on.

3. Slowly. Start by kissing (do not jump on the sexual organs).

4. Give an orgasm. Many women do not experience orgasm during intercourse. Some women who experience orgasm several times is much more likely to get a second or third orgasm during sexual intercourse if they had ever experienced.

5. Consider other erotic zones. There are many erotic zones, such as nipples, scrotum (in men), or other places such as ears, neck, and so on. @ Abd