Orgasm for SMS? Wow!

Because live different city, which has been engaged couples are using SMS to communicate. They even use it for love affairs. Can orgasm too! Are there any dangers? Does anyone else could experience the same thing?

"I am a 23-year-old woman. Next year will carry out an engagement with the 28-year-old boyfriend. We've ± 1.5 years of dating. In this year my girlfriend got a job in the city of origin. So we dated long distance. Our meeting once a month or sometimes twice a month. During this time our communication going well.

I am as a woman is very aggressive at all. Every month I really want to have sex with him, and this or this I feel like making love to convey via SMS. My girlfriend had also responded via SMS. So we make love via SMS.

This is what bothers me, because after making love in the SMS I feel satisfied and relieved, body and emotions, too tired. Bahayakah it if continues on and on?

Every meeting, we would perform oral sex. We both accept and agree to perform oral sex. Oral sex as a means for both of us to express the passion and desire after a long time no see.

After oral sex, I had a whitish, milky white color, resulting in itching in my vaginal area. I want to ask, what caused this whiteness? Whether this is due to stimulated vagina too long? Whitish when will this come out first menstruation, and after menstruation does not come out again. Why? How to cope with the discharge and itching? "

Ana, Yogyakarta

No need to worry

Sex via SMS? Perhaps you mean to express feelings to each other via SMS, accompanied by the words erotic as a substitute for sexual relations.
Many people feel aroused and experience sexual response that way. This means they are aroused due to receive a psychic stimulation via erotic sentences via SMS. So, the move without physical stimuli, such as kiss and grope. Some people then do masturbate to reach orgasm after being stimulated by the erotic words in the SMS.

I do not know what you mean by "feel satisfied and relieved, body and emotions, too tired". Do you want to say that you get to reach orgasm because it receives stimulation via SMS, then feel sexual satisfaction as much emotion involved?

If you really can achieve orgasm and feel satisfied, I think there's nothing to worry about. It will not happen because of the danger reach orgasm through stimulation of erotic words via SMS. Indeed there is no risk whatever happens. However, achieving orgasm just because it receives stimulation via erotic words, let alone via SMS, quite rare.

Basically the deal

About oral sex, it is a conscious choice to do with your prospective fiance. Of course you and he have been considered from various aspects, to agree to do that and not having sex because they have not married.

Not a few who insist like you. Sexual intercourse should not be because not married, but want to perform oral sex. Of course, this stance is not necessarily true and can be discussed.

Oral sex does not cause ill-effects of origin are desired shared by the couple, the fun the two sides, and both are in good health, both genital and mouth.

Conversely, if oral sex is performed in a state of forced and unpleasant, it can cause psychological trauma for those who feel compelled. If sex is having an infection, they can lead to transmission into the lining of the mouth.

Similarly, if the lining of the mouth is going through because of contracting venereal disease infections, infections of the mouth can infect the genital touching. Furthermore, a process of infecting each other.

About whiteness that you experience, it might be normal vaginal discharge that occurs at about the fertile period because of vaginal discharge that occurs before menstruation and disappear after the menstrual discharge.

If the discharge is not normal because of certain infections, it will still happen even though there has been a period. However, the itching that accompanies vaginal discharge can come up with the alleged possibility of infections that cause vaginal discharge that

To ascertain what the cause of vaginal discharge is, of course examination is required. Only then can be given appropriate treatment. @

Consultation is answered by Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila, And Sp